Share lang po..Ito po yung OFFCAM na ng SGLive last Sunday..hindi kami makalapit kay Sarah kasi marami ng nakapalibot sa kanya..so ginawa namin kinantahan na lang namin sya nung Popsters Themesong...at napatingin sya sa amin with a Smile on her face..(as seen on picture).. nakakatuwa lang ishare yang masayang moment namin sa kanya,kahit hindi kami nakalapit. Tingin at ngiti pa lang nya,masaya na kami.
We're always here for you bebe Sarah..& We Love You..
[font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]@rosary...I agree with what you have written...esp with this: She defied everything that is so common in the industry just to make her stand. Her conviction and values prevails over what the industry dictates. [/font]
...and so to say, she doesn't have what it takes to stand for something is so way out of line...Sarah is just a gentle soul...she's choosing her battles...the fact that she has remained true to what she is and has kept her virtues, is standing up for something that TRULY MATTERS amidst the pressures and temptations surrounding her...and that is COURAGE beyond compare...sadly, those who don't have it would view her otherwise.
I just would like to say my piece on this continuing saga...I admire SARAH G...for everything that she and for all the other things she is not... UNBROKEN by ERG I’m a popster…not officially, but in my heart I know I am…You don’t just claim to be a popster or announce to the whole world that you are her no.1 fan, yet, leave her the moment you felt it no longer works for you. Honestly, I had my apprehensions about Gerald being a part of Sarah’s life- onscreen and off screen. His history with women and relationships is so UNSarah. Then, I saw them together. The chemistry was insane…the love seemed real. As a fan, you were filled with overwhelming sense of joy that, may be, her prince had finally come…may be. He was sparkling and she was blooming. Her giggles sounded magical. He sounded so sincere. She has always been viewed as the girl-next-door…an epitome of everything that is good and pure in this world of treachery and deceit. He, on the other hand, became a man of wisdom…a knight in shining armour…a symbol of chivalry. Suddenly, he’s no longer the heart breaker but a man of pure heart and sincere intention. Six months…in a world where they’re in, a six-month-long courtship is tantamount to a lifetime. Somehow, their blossoming love story became the parameters of how all love stories should unfold. The lines, “ SINGLE pero MAY INSPIRASYON” has become so viral that it has given the term “FRIENDS LANG” a competition. At that time, every actress being interviewed would say that the next man would hopefully be the man she would marry…slowly but surely…enjoying the journey…nililigawan ang pamilya…but all these seemed only to work when uttered by Sarah and Gerald…indeed, they have become the PRINCESS KATE and PRINCE WILLIAM on this part of the universe. Then, in a sudden twist of fate, the fairy tale has met its doom. Some have taken sides. The ASHRALDS have remained hopeful…the POPSTERS have kept their love for Sarah. A lot of POVS have been said, written and shared. Many were so quick to cast judgment and point fingers…the silly part is, there were those who were blaming SARAH as the main culprit of this heartbreaking saga. Citing her incapability to stand her ground, to fight for Gerald, to go against her parents’ wish. I bet if she were your daughter, you would have thought twice before you’d say your piece. People were prodding her to fight for GERALD…the question is, WHERE IS HE? How does he figure out in all these? The truth of the matter is…HE HAS GIVEN UP on her. It is so heartbreaking that a lot of people fail to see that. It wasn’t Sarah who couldn’t stand for her man…it was GERALD who chose to give up. Why are we so keen on wanting to see Sarah commit the greatest mistake of her life over a man who easily bailed out on her? Don’t give me the SIX MONTHS…it has only been six months…for someone who kept on telling the world-how amazing the journey was, how much he has learned from her, how she brought out the best in him…six months would not seem too long to wait especially if you know that she’s worth all the time. I guess, the six-month courtship took its toll on him. Who can blame him? He’s young and good-looking. He could have any woman he wants so why spend a seemingly “lifetime” to wait for a woman who will never compromise her conservative upbringing and firm principles even for a man she seemed smitten with? The answer is simple…because you TRULY love her…so the moment you chose to leave, it says otherwise. But I hope I’m wrong. I hope Gerald will prove me wrong. Reality bites…we all want to see Sarah relives our own fairy tale and we want Gerald to be the prince she has been waiting for. Together, they have started a story of once upon a time, but just couldn’t end it with a happily ever after…or may be, they are just looking for a more fitting story…something that is more real…no longer between a princess and a prince…but simply, between a man and a woman…who need not defy all the odds…who don’t need to let go just to prove that the love is there…instead, when the road gets rougher, they’ll hold each other closer…and keep the faith alive. The pain between the two is evident. She is still stunning but the giggles have faded. He is still dashing but the spark has waned. We could only wish the best for both of them. I pray that Sarah will find the serenity of her heart. She will fight for the desires of her heart when the time is truly right. She wouldn’t command this kind of love and respect if she is not the woman we all believe she would be…but timing is everything…yes, there are no perfect decisions, no guaranteed moves…but there are RIGHT choices…Sarah will make hers at her own time and at her own will. Our God is a just GOD…He will shower her with the happiness that will last not only for six months…but for a lifetime…for she is Sarah…and that is what she truly deserves.
She wouldn’t command this kind of love and respect if she is not the woman we all believe she would be… i really love this line :-) ang galing mo!! :-)
[font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]@rosary...I agree with what you have written...esp with this: She defied everything that is so common in the industry just to make her stand. Her conviction and values prevails over what the industry dictates. [/font]
...and so to say, she doesn't have what it takes to stand for something is so way out of line...Sarah is just a gentle soul...she's choosing her battles...the fact that she has remained true to what she is and has kept her virtues, is standing up for something that TRULY MATTERS amidst the pressures and temptations surrounding her...and that is COURAGE beyond compare...sadly, those who don't have it would view her otherwise.
GOBLESS all of us....GODBLESS our PRINCESS!
Thank you for your thoughts. Very well said. COURAGE, that truly defines Sarah. FORTITUDE. Fortitude is the virtue that allows us to overcome fear and to remain steady in our will in the face of obstacles. Prudence and justice are the virtues through which we decide what needs to be done; fortitude gives us the strength to do it.
I admire her for having that virtue that truly separates her from the rest in this industry. Keep on praying for her and her entire family. And also that more people in the industry will learn from her and follow her witnessing.
God be with you Sarah!
P.S. @loislane46, can I post this conversation of ours on twitter? People should hear also the other side of it. Suntok sa hangin, maybe, but I will pray that people will be blessed by this conversation. And that it will lead more people to speak the TRUTH!
@rosary...Yes, you may...and i am praying your prayer as well...Sarah has been a source of joy to so many people...Her faith in God, i deeply share...i, too, believe that everything will be given to us in God's perfect time...TO GOD I SURRENDER...GODBLESS!
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[font=Verdana, Arial, Tahoma, Calibri, Geneva, sans-serif]Whatever is happening right now, I pray that the hand of God is with them both. May this time be an opportunity for them to grow more and be the person the Lord wants them to be. I believe that the Lord is preparing them for a greater plan to witness for God. As an individual, or only God knows as a couple. [/font]
[font=Verdana, Arial, Tahoma, Calibri, Geneva, sans-serif]God bless you![/font][font=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif] [/font] [font=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif] Originally Posted by TheNew20[/font] [font=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif] An Open Letter To our Beloved Princess .. it is so hard to put into words,
the true feeling of a fan, who is a parent and at the same time a daughter ..
i know i share the same sentiments as you !
May a sweet smile reigns on your face today knowing
that as much as many would wish to put you down,
legions of us are cheering you, believing in you,
praying for you and wishing you a blissful life ahead..
may it be personal or professional .
Maybe its too late for me to talk about the stress and storms of growing up
as you are now an adult .But the storms don’t end when you grow older
no matter how much love ones would try to shield you from getting hurt …
I want to share with you this an unsolicited advice I have gotten
from my parents during one chaotic time when i was your age,:
” YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE PEOPLE,
YOU CAN ONLY CHANGE THE WAY YOU REACT TO THEM,,,”
trust me , as it may seem to be difficult , at times impossible, decades after,
this thought kept me sane from hurtful comments of people who have
nothing better to do in life but poke their noses into someone’s personal business.
Do not easily be disheartened by negative stories:
Bear in mind that when people talk about you,
your must be doing something EXTRA ORDINARY.
And as you achieved such greatness, do not forget: GREAT MEN are always misunderstood, Socrates was poised,
and Rizal, Kennedy and Ninoy were shot, unfortunately,
even Jesus was crucified. YOU may say,
you are nobody compared to such great men, but Baby Girl,
for ordinary people like me who watched you grow up before our very eyes,
you are GREAT! And so the next step is just to ACCEPT!
Life isn’t serve in silver platter as the saying goes.. and like ate Juday said,
no money can buy you a FORCEFIELD to shield you from PAIN.
So BRACE YOURSELF, and BE STRONG..Knowing that your parents,
family and millions of us – BELIEVE in the goodness of your HEART!
After all these this chaotic news about you and Ge came folding before me,
I must admit I was ANGERED, PAINED and almost DISHEARTENED.
Just like many of us , despite personally telling Ge when he was here in SF ,
“ nakahit anong mangyari sa inyong dalwa, tatanggapin namin,
huwag lang kayong magkasakitan, “I was still heart broken.
Truly , words are easier said than done..
So to start, in behalf of others, “WE APOLOGIZE.”
And despite it is none of our business, becoz we love you both so dearly,
many of us made it their personal business and were quick to judge.
It must not been easy for you as we saw you weep in TV and all our hearts
got also broken with yours.. Some blamed Ge, some Mommy D
and others even YOU !Yet at the end of the day, we are but fans
and no matter what we see in TV, or hear or read, we should not FORGET ,
we were never there personally when you and GE and your parents ,
and including MANAGEMENT talked , which have might have causes
this LOVE STORY to seemingly come to a HALT!
Unsolicited advice as this may be, as many have tried to give you:
Let me impart mine:
I admire your obedience to your parents.
Trust, that God knows what he saying when HE made
OBEDIENCE to PARENTS as the FIRST COMMANDMENT
with a PROMISE. He concluded by saying:
that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”
And so there is nothing wrong about obeying your parents
as many seem to allude.I supposed, some of them are not yet parents
and some have forgotten, once they were sons and daughters too.
As a parent, I want my sons to obey me with an understanding that
I only WANT what is BEST for THEM. They may never see
the wisdom in it right now but am definite they would see it years after. I know this as a fact because before I became a parent I was daughter .
Some mistakes I made, looking back, I wish I listened to my parents more.
Yet it doesn’t mean as an obedient daughter you can’t air your side at all. As much as parents want to guide their kids on which road to thread,
parents should and must also learn to let go as they see it
fit to their kids’ maturity. The more mature you became
the more comfortable your parents to let go of you…
So contrary to what others may have said about your mom, I salute her for doing her best to keep you grounded
and become the daughter we parents would dream to have. You are unmarred and I untarnished by showbiz after all
these years because she was quick to put her foot down,
when she knows it would be detrimental to your inner core.
Thus Your MAGICK isn’t in your voice, it isn’t in your
sway as you dance, and, its not about your acting ability ...
but it is the BEAUTY INSIDE that transcends your whole being.,..
it’s your NATURAL CHARM from birth and NORTURED WAYS
by your parents which made Gerald say : It is being YOU that separates you from the rest
and we definitely agree.
And so , if we can see this, beautiful YOU, please have this confidence
in your heart that many trust your ability to decide and to take life in a stride.
And I want to believe MOMMY Divine when she said that as much as
they guide you in making your decisions; it is still your will that takes place
at the end of the day. So decide well, and be firm as a 24 yr old-
young lady should be.We do not know what happens in the midst of
your discussions with your parents. There maybe times that you would have
to play tag of war.. but always keep an open mind – you need to Listen, reflect and accordingly then act .
Then there is the JOY & PAIN of FALLING IN LOVE.
Both of you have been commendable on how you have
carried your courtship. Something rare, almost extinct,
in today’s standards where people fall in and out of love via txt msg ,
bbm or worst via tweet and a poke in face book.
I like Ge before, but just like many, it is when we started looking at him through your eyes that we all fell in love
with the man he became. As much as many claims that GE
is as wonderful as he was before, we do hope that many wouldn’t quick
to forget,it is through you that his goodness and chivalry was
magnified a hundred times.A hero is born when there is distress. And you as our princess brought that HERO out in GE.
Your purity in heart and your trusting nature, even your gullibleness
made Gerald wants to be the best man he can possibly be,
so he said himself. Kaya kung babaeng babae ang pakiramdam mo sa kanya,
nakakasiguro ako, lalaking lalakin naman ang feeling nya pag kasama ka.
And we are not quick to forget as well that Gerald brought out
the BEST in YOU…and more… he brought the twinkles in your joy,
the sweetness in your smile, the WOW in your every performance.
So seldom you would see two people who truly compliments each others
beauty and abilities.. Compatibility is a big word. And it plays a big
part in a relationship. Contrary to what most believe that compatibility
is how much you are alike, I believe that compatibility is more of how much
you are willing to give in to each other and be supportive of your differences.
In psychology, there are no 2 people in this world who
are a like.It is when you master the art of when to push and
when to pull, when to say yes and when to say no, when to ask and
when to give in; that you can truly say YOUR ARE COMPATIBLE
So for the two of you - coming in together from so diverse of a
background, we are awed but your ability to mold in each others liking.
After all, Love as they say, transcends everything.
Yet prepare your heart for the saying is true : YOUR GREATST source of JOY will also be your
GREATEST source of PAIN. And as you cry that Sunday night,
for reasons, beyond our comprehension, and hearing that
he too wept for you.. may you both realized that falling in love will
never just be an enjoyable ride.. In the end, no matter what are the reasons,
may it be within or beyond your control; IT IS WHAT IT IS, accept and
deal with it with much respect and support for each others pain.…
TIME, Ge, said, Will tell what’s best for you two. .
I salute Gerald for giving you the gift of TIME. I hope that he himself will use
that time wisely. I wish for him to make sure to himself that he would
be strong enough to be your knight in a shinning armor as many of us
have imagined him to be. And manifest in his actions the
meaning of the words he used to always utter
“ NO TRUNING BACK FOR ME THIS TIME ” …
And as you too, allow time to flow, make it your personal goal,
to be strong and decisive, knowing what you can and can not give.
You are right when you said; you would want more time to see if you two are
truly meant to be. Do not be pressured by people, for in the end,
it is you who would live in the same roof with this man. And it will be him
who would have to take you for better or for worst. It is when all curtains are down,
when tickets are no longer being sold, when movies are no longer being made
that you two would share real life together if ever, and the joy coupled with pain,
will only be yours and yours alone. So TRULY – you two must decide WELL!. A
nd as you wait for that perfect time, cultivate your friendship away from
people’s prying eyes. You maybe public because of the career you both chose,
but that doesn’t give everyone a ticket to poke their noses into you personal life
or even dictate the ending of your love life.. Again DO NOT BE PRESSURED!
Allow each other to grow independently as professionals and yet together as individuals..
Moreover, as you allow yourself to mature fully, KNOW YOURSELF,
for it is knowing yourself, that can truly TRUST YOURSELF.. And you MUST also have to learn to LOVE YOURSELF a little bit more,
for if you DO NOT LOVE YOURSELF, you will NEVER be able to FULLY LOVE OTHERS..
Remember: YOU CAN NEVER GIVE what YOU DO NOT HAVE!
They all say 24 is old enough to have a boyfriend, but for some of us
and your mom and hopefully for you, 24 is too young to get married.
Sadly many forget that the reason why you would entertain the thought
of having a boyfriend is because you are already emotionally, mentally
and spiritually prepared to be married. Courtship is a PRELUDE to marriage,
not an OVERTURE to a possible break up , realizing late that you made a mistake .
And this, only TIME, can TRULY REVEAL!
And when that day comes, may it be months or years from now,
may GE and you be ready to say YES , not only as a boyfriend or a girlfriend,
but as a partner, a compliment, a cheer leader , a shoulder to lean on,
a better half of everything life is to offer.. Your maturity
to allow time to put your emotions to test,
sends BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE to this world, that indeed,
TRUE LOVE WAITS!
And if by chance, (though we pray it wont happen) that
you and Ge decides to truly part for now, have this faith in your heart,
that we, your fans, would try our best to understand, . we would want to,
together with your family, provide you with the strength to move on and believe that,
” if something as beautiful as your love story with Ge is not yet your reality now, HOLD TIGHT for as GOD is preparing a better SARAH for GE …
He also had prepared for YOU , the BEST Gege..!
gaganda lahat ng mga recent povs and open letters. I thank God for all of you and your gift of words. you guys are God's instruments for all of us supporters of Sarah. Proud lang that Sarah has these good hearted and inteligent fan base. buti na lang nagparamdam din ako....labas na iba dyang lurkers lang...hehehhehe...kaka proud ulit...at least gumagaan loob naten lahat... pati idol is smiling again..di man ganoon kaSparkling but yes she is smiling again...so Pray pa naten sya...
Thank you for sharing your thoughts here at SG.com. Sometimes Sarah visits this site which was created for her and for all fans all over the world.
My take on this issue. I've known and have seen Sarah grown up into a fine lady since she was 15yrs old. Since the pilot epi of Sarah G live i was there inside the studio and have not missed being there until now. We get to see Sarah more offcam and alam namin mga nangyayari sa loob. But with all this issues and POV's of different groups of fans minsan nakakalungkot din. Yung iba na nanonood lang sa TV or minsan nagbabasa lang sa mga social networks pero kung makapag salita "know it all" ang dating kung maka comment.. Nakakalungkot lang.
Please let's not be judgemental on Sarah, Ge and Mommy D. Lahat naman siguro nasasaktan pero mas nasasaktan sila kung sobrang below the belt na yung mga sinasabi ng iba. Best that we can do is to pray more for Sarah that she'll be strong and that the Lord will guide her through in whatever decision she has to make. I'm glad na kahit papano walang sobrang nega ang mga pinoposts dito. Thank you for that.
Let's just continue to show our love and support for Sarah.
Share lang po..Ito po yung OFFCAM na ng SGLive last Sunday..hindi kami makalapit kay Sarah kasi marami ng nakapalibot sa kanya..so ginawa namin kinantahan na lang namin sya nung Popsters Themesong...at napatingin sya sa amin with a Smile on her face..(as seen on picture).. nakakatuwa lang ishare yang masayang moment namin sa kanya,kahit hindi kami nakalapit. Tingin at ngiti pa lang nya,masaya na kami. alt=':10sgHi:' ]
We're always here for you bebe Sarah..& We Love You..
about Sarah being compared and wanting her to be as smart as Toni G and Nicki G...well yes they are very articulate...more of Host nga sila right?...but Sarah is way out of their league...Sarah is a Superstar...she remains true and steadfast to her upbringing and faith to God...kaya naman super blessed at talented sya. Alam naman naten and I also hope na minahal naten sya sa pinapakita nyang good values...conservative man pero sya yun eh...kaya idol...always be true to yourself...go ka lang sa kung ano makakabuti sa yo and your family....love to all
[font=times new roman,times,serif]@rosary...WOW...exactly what i want to tell SARAH...and GERALD as well...Sarah is so blessed to have you, Ms. (ATE) Mari and all the other POPSTERS in their midst.[/font]
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[font=times new roman,times,serif]· SERENDIPITY...what does it truly mean? Most of us are waiting for that one special moment that can magically turn our world around...the accidental discovery of something pleasant, valuable, or useful...even just one and that could be enough to last us a lifetime. But in life, they say, there are no accidents or coincidences...things always happen for a reason. One can never turn his back from his DESTINY. It has been written...and it will be done.[/font]
· [font=times new roman,times,serif]All of us will meet our Achilles Heel....that deadly weakness in spite of overall strength, that can actually or potentially lead to our downfall...but in the end, what we are made of inside will determine our fate.[/font]..[font=times new roman,times,serif]So kung ang pamantayan ay ang kagandahan ng kalooban...then, Sarah's fate is something that we, her supporters, shouldn't worry about.[/font]
@gem7...i second that...there is nothing wrong with how Sarah carries herself verbally and emotionally...and to say, wanting to be assmart as...is a bit misplaced...She has depth...she has honesty...she has the wit...just because she chose not to have a man beside her doesn't make her not as smart as the others...it was actually the smartest move a woman could ever do especially if she knows it's not yet the right time. Knowing where your heart is and standing by your principles, though defined unpopular by some spectators, is a true symbol of wisdom.
@gem7...i second that...there is nothing wrong with how Sarah carries herself verbally and emotionally...and to say, wanting to be assmart as...is a bit misplaced...She has depth...she has honesty...she has the wit...just because she chose not to have a man beside her doesn't make her not as smart as the others...it was actually the smartest move a woman could ever do especially if she knows it's not yet the right time. Knowing where your heart is and standing by your principles, though defined unpopular by some spectators, is a true symbol of wisdom.
yup..exactly what I want to point out....hi Loislane46....i really like your POV/ letter...so true and honest...i admire you for your writing skills...
Hinihintay ko pa rin talaga mag salita yang Heraldo na yan...nasaan na sya...hindi na talaga katanggap tangap ang no comments and mga right time time na yan...NOW na sya magsalita para magkaalaman na...sya lalaking nagliligay at huminto sya dapat magsalita.
Thanks for all the beautifhl POV's...ate Marie....well said....could somebody forward that open letter to all PI papers/ abs-cbn to show support and solidarity. SG..GA the Geronimos are victims of circumstance.
I just would like to say my piece on this continuing saga...I admire SARAH G...for everything that she and for all the other things she is not...
UNBROKEN by ERG
I’m a popster…not officially, but in my heart I know I am…You don’t just claim to be a popster or announce to the whole world that you are her no.1 fan, yet, leave her the moment you felt it no longer works for you.
Honestly, I had my apprehensions about Gerald being a part of Sarah’s life- onscreen and off screen. His history with women and relationships is so UNSarah. Then, I saw them together. The chemistry was insane…the love seemed real. As a fan, you were filled with overwhelming sense of joy that, may be, her prince had finally come…may be.
He was sparkling and she was blooming. Her giggles sounded magical. He sounded so sincere. She has always been viewed as the girl-next-door…an epitome of everything that is good and pure in this world of treachery and deceit. He, on the other hand, became a man of wisdom…a knight in shining armour…a symbol of chivalry. Suddenly, he’s no longer the heart breaker but a man of pure heart and sincere intention. Six months…in a world where they’re in, a six-month-long courtship is tantamount to a lifetime. Somehow, their blossoming love story became the parameters of how all love stories should unfold. The lines, “ SINGLE pero MAY INSPIRASYON” has become so viral that it has given the term “FRIENDS LANG” a competition. At that time, every actress being interviewed would say that the next man would hopefully be the man she would marry…slowly but surely…enjoying the journey…nililigawan ang pamilya…but all these seemed only to work when uttered by Sarah and Gerald…indeed, they have become the PRINCESS KATE and PRINCE WILLIAM on this part of the universe.
Then, in a sudden twist of fate, the fairy tale has met its doom. Some have taken sides. The ASHRALDS have remained hopeful…the POPSTERS have kept their love for Sarah. A lot of POVS have been said, written and shared. Many were so quick to cast judgment and point fingers…the silly part is, there were those who were blaming SARAH as the main culprit of this heartbreaking saga. Citing her incapability to stand her ground, to fight for Gerald, to go against her parents’ wish. I bet if she were your daughter, you would have thought twice before you’d say your piece.
People were prodding her to fight for GERALD…the question is, WHERE IS HE? How does he figure out in all these? The truth of the matter is…HE HAS GIVEN UP on her. It is so heartbreaking that a lot of people fail to see that. It wasn’t Sarah who couldn’t stand for her man…it was GERALD who chose to give up. Why are we so keen on wanting to see Sarah commit the greatest mistake of her life over a man who easily bailed out on her? Don’t give me the SIX MONTHS…it has only been six months…for someone who kept on telling the world-how amazing the journey was, how much he has learned from her, how she brought out the best in him…six months would not seem too long to wait especially if you know that she’s worth all the time. I guess, the six-month courtship took its toll on him. Who can blame him? He’s young and good-looking. He could have any woman he wants so why spend a seemingly “lifetime” to wait for a woman who will never compromise her conservative upbringing and firm principles even for a man she seemed smitten with? The answer is simple…because you TRULY love her…so the moment you chose to leave, it says otherwise. But I hope I’m wrong. I hope Gerald will prove me wrong.
Reality bites…we all want to see Sarah relives our own fairy tale and we want Gerald to be the prince she has been waiting for. Together, they have started a story of once upon a time, but just couldn’t end it with a happily ever after…or may be, they are just looking for a more fitting story…something that is more real…no longer between a princess and a prince…but simply, between a man and a woman…who need not defy all the odds…who don’t need to let go just to prove that the love is there…instead, when the road gets rougher, they’ll hold each other closer…and keep the faith alive.
The pain between the two is evident. She is still stunning but the giggles have faded. He is still dashing but the spark has waned. We could only wish the best for both of them. I pray that Sarah will find the serenity of her heart. She will fight for the desires of her heart when the time is truly right. She wouldn’t command this kind of love and respect if she is not the woman we all believe she would be…but timing is everything…yes, there are no perfect decisions, no guaranteed moves…but there are RIGHT choices…Sarah will make hers at her own time and at her own will. Our God is a just GOD…He will shower her with the happiness that will last not only for six months…but for a lifetime…for she is Sarah…and that is what she truly deserves.
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SMILE from our Dear Princess Sarah...
Pampa-Good Vibes sa ating lahat..
WE LOVE YOU SARAH!
Share lang po..Ito po yung OFFCAM na ng SGLive last Sunday..hindi kami makalapit kay Sarah kasi marami ng nakapalibot sa kanya..so ginawa namin kinantahan na lang namin sya nung Popsters Themesong...at napatingin sya sa amin with a Smile on her face..(as seen on picture).. nakakatuwa lang ishare yang masayang moment namin sa kanya,kahit hindi kami nakalapit. Tingin at ngiti pa lang nya,masaya na kami.
We're always here for you bebe Sarah..& We Love You..
Sana palagi na lang syang Nakangiti at Masaya... para lahat din tayong sumusuporta at nagmamahal sa kanya, masaya at nakangiti din..
...and so to say, she doesn't have what it takes to stand for something is so way out of line...Sarah is just a gentle soul...she's choosing her battles...the fact that she has remained true to what she is and has kept her virtues, is standing up for something that TRULY MATTERS amidst the pressures and temptations surrounding her...and that is COURAGE beyond compare...sadly, those who don't have it would view her otherwise.
GOBLESS all of us....GODBLESS our PRINCESS!
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Thank you for your thoughts. Very well said. COURAGE, that truly defines Sarah. FORTITUDE. Fortitude is the virtue that allows us to overcome fear and to remain steady in our will in the face of obstacles. Prudence and justice are the virtues through which we decide what needs to be done; fortitude gives us the strength to do it.
I admire her for having that virtue that truly separates her from the rest in this industry. Keep on praying for her and her entire family. And also that more people in the industry will learn from her and follow her witnessing.
God be with you Sarah!
P.S. @loislane46, can I post this conversation of ours on twitter? People should hear also the other side of it. Suntok sa hangin, maybe, but I will pray that people will be blessed by this conversation. And that it will lead more people to speak the TRUTH!
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An Open Letter To our Beloved Princess .. it is so hard to put into words,
the true feeling of a fan, who is a parent and at the same time a daughter ..
i know i share the same sentiments as you !
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May a sweet smile reigns on your face today knowing
that as much as many would wish to put you down,
legions of us are cheering you, believing in you,
praying for you and wishing you a blissful life ahead
may it be personal or professional .
Maybe its too late for me to talk about the stress and storms of growing up
as you are now an adult .But the storms don’t end when you grow older
no matter how much love ones would try to shield you from getting hurt …
I want to share with you this an unsolicited advice I have gotten
from my parents during one chaotic time when i was your age,:
” YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE PEOPLE,
YOU CAN ONLY CHANGE THE WAY YOU REACT TO THEM,,,”
trust me , as it may seem to be difficult , at times impossible, decades after,
this thought kept me sane from hurtful comments of people who have
nothing better to do in life but poke their noses into someone’s personal business.
Do not easily be disheartened by negative stories:
Bear in mind that when people talk about you,
your must be doing something EXTRA ORDINARY.
And as you achieved such greatness, do not forget:
GREAT MEN are always misunderstood, Socrates was poised,
and Rizal, Kennedy and Ninoy were shot, unfortunately,
even Jesus was crucified. YOU may say,
you are nobody compared to such great men,
for ordinary people like me who watched you grow up before our very eyes,
you are GREAT! And so the next step is just to ACCEPT!
Life isn’t serve in silver platter as the saying goes.. and like ate Juday said,
no money can buy you a FORCEFIELD to shield you from PAIN.
So BRACE YOURSELF, and BE STRONG..Knowing that your parents,
family and millions of us – BELIEVE in the goodness of your HEART!
After all these this chaotic news about you and Ge came folding before me,
I must admit I was ANGERED, PAINED and almost DISHEARTENED.
Just like many of us , despite personally telling Ge when he was here in SF ,
“ nakahit anong mangyari sa inyong dalwa, tatanggapin namin,
huwag lang kayong magkasakitan, “I was still heart broken.
Truly , words are easier said than done..
So to start, in behalf of others, “WE APOLOGIZE.”
And despite it is none of our business, becoz we love you both so dearly,
many of us made it their personal business and were quick to judge.
It must not been easy for you as we saw you weep in TV and all our hearts
got also broken with yours.. Some blamed Ge, some Mommy D
and others even YOU !Yet at the end of the day, we are but fans
and no matter what we see in TV, or hear or read, we should not FORGET ,
we were never there personally when you and GE and your parents ,
and including MANAGEMENT talked , which have might have causes
this LOVE STORY to seemingly come to a HALT!
Unsolicited advice as this may be, as many have tried to give you:
Let me impart mine:
I admire your obedience to your parents.
Trust, that God knows what he saying when HE made
OBEDIENCE to PARENTS as the FIRST COMMANDMENT
with a PROMISE. He concluded by saying:
that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”
And so there is nothing wrong about obeying your parents
as many seem to allude.I supposed, some of them are not yet parents
and some have forgotten, once they were sons and daughters too.
As a parent, I want my sons to obey me with an understanding that
I only WANT what is BEST for THEM. They may never see
the wisdom in it right now but am definite they would see it years after.
I know this as a fact because before I became a parent I was daughter .
Some mistakes I made, looking back, I wish I listened to my parents more.
Yet it doesn’t mean as an obedient daughter you can’t air your side at all.
As much as parents want to guide their kids on which road to thread,
parents should and must also learn to let go as they see it
fit to their kids’ maturity. The more mature you became
the more comfortable your parents to let go of you…
So contrary to what others may have said about your mom,
I salute her for doing her best to keep you grounded
and become the daughter we parents would dream to have.
You are unmarred and I untarnished by showbiz after all
these years because she was quick to put her foot down,
when she knows it would be detrimental to your inner core.
Thus Your MAGICK isn’t in your voice, it isn’t in your
sway as you dance, and, its not about your acting ability ...
but it is the BEAUTY INSIDE that transcends your whole being.,..
it’s your NATURAL CHARM from birth and NORTURED WAYS
by your parents which made Gerald say :
It is being YOU that separates you from the rest
and we definitely agree.
And so , if we can see this, beautiful YOU, please have this confidence
in your heart that many trust your ability to decide and to take life in a stride.
And I want to believe MOMMY Divine when she said that as much as
they guide you in making your decisions; it is still your will that takes place
at the end of the day. So decide well, and be firm as a 24 yr old-
young lady should be.We do not know what happens in the midst of
your discussions with your parents. There maybe times that you would have
to play tag of war.. but always keep an open mind – you need to
Listen, reflect and accordingly then act .
Then there is the JOY & PAIN of FALLING IN LOVE
Both of you have been commendable on how you have
carried your courtship. Something rare, almost extinct,
in today’s standards where people fall in and out of love via txt msg ,
bbm or worst via tweet and a poke in face book.
I like Ge before, but just like many, it is when we started
looking at him through your eyes that we all fell in love
with the man he became. As much as many claims that GE
is as wonderful as he was before, we do hope that many wouldn’t quick
to forget,it is through you that his goodness and chivalry was
magnified a hundred times.A hero is born when there is distress.
And you as our princess brought that HERO out in GE.
Your purity in heart and your trusting nature, even your gullibleness
made Gerald wants to be the best man he can possibly be,
so he said himself. Kaya kung babaeng babae ang pakiramdam mo sa kanya,
nakakasiguro ako, lalaking lalakin naman ang feeling nya pag kasama ka.
And we are not quick to forget as well that Gerald brought out
the BEST in YOU…and more… he brought the twinkles in your joy,
the sweetness in your smile, the WOW in your every performance.
So seldom you would see two people who truly compliments each others
beauty and abilities.. Compatibility is a big word. And it plays a big
part in a relationship. Contrary to what most believe that compatibility
is how much you are alike, I believe that compatibility is more of how much
you are willing to give in to each other and be supportive of your differences.
In psychology, there are no 2 people in this world who
are a like.It is when you master the art of when to push and
when to pull, when to say yes and when to say no, when to ask and
when to give in; that you can truly say YOUR ARE COMPATIBLE
So for the two of you - coming in together from so diverse of a
background, we are awed but your ability to mold in each others liking.
After all, Love as they say, transcends everything.
Yet prepare your heart for the saying is true :
YOUR GREATST source of JOY will also be your
GREATEST source of PAIN. And as you cry that Sunday night,
for reasons, beyond our comprehension, and hearing that
he too wept for you.. may you both realized that falling in love will
never just be an enjoyable ride.. In the end, no matter what are the reasons,
may it be within or beyond your control; IT IS WHAT IT IS, accept and
deal with it with much respect and support for each others pain.…
TIME, Ge, said, Will tell what’s best for you two. .
I salute Gerald for giving you the gift of TIME. I hope that he himself will use
that time wisely. I wish for him to make sure to himself that he would
be strong enough to be your knight in a shinning armor as many of us
have imagined him to be. And manifest in his actions the
meaning of the words he used to always utter
“ NO TRUNING BACK FOR ME THIS TIME ” …
And as you too, allow time to flow, make it your personal goal,
to be strong and decisive, knowing what you can and can not give.
You are right when you said; you would want more time to see if you two are
truly meant to be. Do not be pressured by people, for in the end,
it is you who would live in the same roof with this man. And it will be him
who would have to take you for better or for worst. It is when all curtains are down,
when tickets are no longer being sold, when movies are no longer being made
that you two would share real life together if ever, and the joy coupled with pain,
will only be yours and yours alone. So TRULY – you two must decide WELL!. A
nd as you wait for that perfect time, cultivate your friendship away from
people’s prying eyes. You maybe public because of the career you both chose,
but that doesn’t give everyone a ticket to poke their noses into you personal life
or even dictate the ending of your love life.. Again DO NOT BE PRESSURED!
Allow each other to grow independently as professionals and yet together as individuals..
Moreover, as you allow yourself to mature fully, KNOW YOURSELF,
for it is knowing yourself, that can truly TRUST YOURSELF..
And you MUST also have to learn to LOVE YOURSELF a little bit more,
for if you DO NOT LOVE YOURSELF, you will NEVER be able to FULLY LOVE OTHERS..
Remember: YOU CAN NEVER GIVE what YOU DO NOT HAVE!
They all say 24 is old enough to have a boyfriend, but for some of us
and your mom and hopefully for you, 24 is too young to get married.
Sadly many forget that the reason why you would entertain the thought
of having a boyfriend is because you are already emotionally, mentally
and spiritually prepared to be married. Courtship is a PRELUDE to marriage,
not an OVERTURE to a possible break up , realizing late that you made a mistake .
And this, only TIME, can TRULY REVEAL!
And when that day comes, may it be months or years from now,
may GE and you be ready to say YES , not only as a boyfriend or a girlfriend,
but as a partner, a compliment, a cheer leader , a shoulder to lean on,
a better half of everything life is to offer.. Your maturity
to allow time to put your emotions to test,
sends BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE to this world, that indeed,
TRUE LOVE WAITS!
And if by chance, (though we pray it wont happen) that
you and Ge decides to truly part for now, have this faith in your heart,
that we, your fans, would try our best to understand, . we would want to,
together with your family, provide you with the strength to move on and believe that,
” if something as beautiful as your love story with Ge is not yet your reality now,
HOLD TIGHT for as GOD is preparing a better SARAH for GE …
He also had prepared for YOU , the BEST Gege..!
Love,
Ate Mari
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My take on this issue. I've known and have seen Sarah grown up into a fine lady since she was 15yrs old. Since the pilot epi of Sarah G live i was there inside the studio and have not missed being there until now. We get to see Sarah more offcam and alam namin mga nangyayari sa loob. But with all this issues and POV's of different groups of fans minsan nakakalungkot din. Yung iba na nanonood lang sa TV or minsan nagbabasa lang sa mga social networks pero kung makapag salita "know it all" ang dating kung maka comment.. Nakakalungkot lang.
Please let's not be judgemental on Sarah, Ge and Mommy D. Lahat naman siguro nasasaktan pero mas nasasaktan sila kung sobrang below the belt na yung mga sinasabi ng iba. Best that we can do is to pray more for Sarah that she'll be strong and that the Lord will guide her through in whatever decision she has to make. I'm glad na kahit papano walang sobrang nega ang mga pinoposts dito. Thank you for that.
Let's just continue to show our love and support for Sarah.
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Thanks Mavee for this pic. Parang kumindat din yata siya nung tumingin sa atin. Marami sa amin nagkaroon ng chance na malapitan siya kasi tumitigil siya nung napadaan sa amin. Merong gustong humarang pero bineso ni Sarah para makaalis at di na humarang sa amin. [img]https://sarahgeronimo.com/uploads/ipb/style_emoticons/legacy/laugh.png ][/img][img]https://sarahgeronimo.com/uploads/ipb/style_emoticons/legacy/laugh.png ][/img]
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yup..exactly what I want to point out....hi Loislane46....i really like your POV/ letter...so true and honest...i admire you for your writing skills...
Hinihintay ko pa rin talaga mag salita yang Heraldo na yan...nasaan na sya...hindi na talaga katanggap tangap ang no comments and mga right time time na yan...NOW na sya magsalita para magkaalaman na...sya lalaking nagliligay at huminto sya dapat magsalita.
super agree!